{"id":16744,"date":"2020-12-24T12:13:56","date_gmt":"2020-12-24T11:13:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.life-magazine.be\/fr\/?p=16744"},"modified":"2020-12-25T09:43:22","modified_gmt":"2020-12-25T08:43:22","slug":"jaime-fetes-de-famille","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/famille\/jaime-fetes-de-famille","title":{"rendered":"\u00ab Je n’aime pas les f\u00eates de famille \u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"Reading Time: <\/span> 2<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/span>

\u00ab Votre ado refuse de f\u00eater No\u00ebl en famille ? Il pr\u00e9f\u00e8rerait \u00ab\u00a0tra\u00eener\u00a0\u00bb avec un pote ? Faut-il accepter ou exiger qu’il reste \u00e0 la maison ?\u00a0\u00bb<\/h3>\n

Vous serez peut-\u00eatre tent\u00e9 de r\u00e9pondre : \u00ab D\u2019accord, si tu pr\u00e9f\u00e8res voir un copain, vas-y ! \u00bb. Une fa\u00e7on d\u2019\u00e9vacuer le conflit. Mais aussi, implicitement, de nier que la famille, c\u2019est important. Que c\u2019est une occasion de retour aux sources, pour ancrer un sentiment d\u2019appartenance. Il va sans doute tirer la t\u00eate, tra\u00eener les pieds, r\u00e2ler\u2026. Il faut savoir que c\u2019est l\u2019\u00e2ge o\u00f9 l\u2019on a tendance \u00e0 rejeter les valeurs familiales. Cela ne vous emp\u00eache pas, par ailleurs, de reconna\u00eetre avec lui que certaines f\u00eates de famille peuvent en effet \u00eatre barbantes. Mais que la magie peut surgir \u00e0 tout moment. A lui d\u2019activer sa r\u00e9ceptivit\u00e9 plut\u00f4t que d\u2019\u00eatre dans la n\u00e9gativit\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Et \u00e0 nous, parents, de cr\u00e9er les conditions pour que la f\u00eate soit chaleureuse et originale pour chacun. M\u00eame si cette ann\u00e9e, la F\u00eate se fait en comit\u00e9 tr\u00e8s restreint.<\/p>\n

Ce qui incombe aux parents, c\u2019est de transmettre le sens de la f\u00eate.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Etre dans la joie des pr\u00e9paratifs. Si nous grognons, soupirons devant tout ce qu\u2019il y reste \u00e0 faire, si nous courons les magasins pour acheter \u2013 mal \u2013 des cadeaux choisis \u00e0 la h\u00e2te, il y a des chances pour que la f\u00eate tourne au vinaigre.\u00a0Cr\u00e9er la surprise. Sans tomber forc\u00e9ment dans des choses compliqu\u00e9es, avoir le souci du d\u00e9tail: une jolie table, une petite attention sur chaque assiette,\u2026\u00a0Cr\u00e9er le lien dans l\u2019inattendu. C\u2019est cela le sens de la f\u00eate. Et l\u00e0, votre ado peut vraiment se sentir concern\u00e9 ! Surtout, si vous l\u2019encouragez \u00e0 y mettre son petit grain de sel, sa touche de cr\u00e9ativit\u00e9. En lui demandant -pourquoi pas ?- d\u2019organiser l\u2019animation de certains moments de la soir\u00e9e. C\u2019est l\u00e0 qu\u2019il se sentira pleinement acteur de cette f\u00eate de famille tant redout\u00e9e !\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n

\n

A lire<\/strong>
\nBien communiquer avec son ado
\nElizabeth Leblanc-Coret et Dr Pierre Coret
\nUn guide pratique pour communiquer \u00ab juste \u00bb avec l\u2019ado sans verser ni dans l\u2019autoritarisme ni dans le laxisme. (Editions Jouvence, 2010)<\/p>\n

\n

Article paru dans Psychologies
\nhttp:\/\/www.psychologies.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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