{"id":47723,"date":"2021-01-08T10:41:42","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T09:41:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/?p=47723"},"modified":"2021-01-08T10:41:42","modified_gmt":"2021-01-08T09:41:42","slug":"le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi","title":{"rendered":"Le burn-out amoureux, c&rsquo;est quoi ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><p>Souvent associ\u00e9 au travail, le ph\u00e9nom\u00e8ne du burn-out peut frapper l\u00e0 o\u00f9 cela fait mal\u00a0: l\u2019amour, la relation avec l\u2019autre. Oui, la qu\u00eate du bonheur est tout aussi difficile \u00e0 atteindre dans une relation que dans le monde professionnel. <em>\u00ab\u00a0Du jour au lendemain, j\u2019ai connu une baisse de tonus, un d\u00e9sint\u00e9r\u00eat presque total pour mon conjoint, une fatigue intense mais aussi une baisse de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/comment-gerer-la-difference-de-libido-dans-un-couple\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">libido<\/a>. Comme si j\u2019avais encaiss\u00e9 tout le poids de l\u2019ann\u00e9e en un instant<\/em> \u00bb explique Anne, jeune quinquag\u00e9naire de 53 ans, crois\u00e9e sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux.<\/p>\n<p>Un t\u00e9moignage typique de burn-out amoureux. Et qui r\u00e9sulte bien souvent d\u2019un surinvestissement dans une relation sentimentale.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Comment d\u00e9finir le burn-out amoureux\u00a0? <\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Pour \u00e9viter le langage du monde m\u00e9dical, le burn-out amoureux peut se d\u00e9finir simplement comme un d\u00e9calage entre le couple id\u00e9alis\u00e9 et la r\u00e9alit\u00e9. Vouloir r\u00e9ussir son couple am\u00e8nera la personne concern\u00e9e \u00e0 se d\u00e9passer puis \u00e0 un \u00e9tat d\u2019\u00e9puisement physique et psychologique. Avec comme cons\u00e9quence, un effondrement g\u00e9n\u00e9ralis\u00e9. Comme pour un burn-out professionnel.<\/p>\n<p>Contrairement \u00e0 la d\u00e9pression amoureuse, le burn-out amoureux ne donne pas cette impression de vide, de manque de sens \u00e0 une relation. Non, l\u2019envie d\u2019y croire est pr\u00e9sente mais ce qui manque, ce sont les ressources, tant mentales que physiques.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Quels sont les signaux d\u2019alerte\u00a0?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Des disputes fr\u00e9quentes dans le couple, parfois pour des d\u00e9tails insignifiants<\/li>\n<li>Un \u00e9tat d\u2019<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/psycho\/diminuer-lanxiete-par-la-kinesiologie-et-la-meditation\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">anxi\u00e9t\u00e9<\/a>, de nervosit\u00e9 quasi en permanence<\/li>\n<li>Des <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/sante\/garder-la-forme\/bien-dormir-mieux-vieillir\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">troubles du sommeil<\/a> sous forme d\u2019insomnies et de r\u00e9veils nocturnes<\/li>\n<li>L\u2019impression d\u2019avoir atteint le bout de la relation<\/li>\n<li>Sensation d\u2019incompr\u00e9hension face au partenaire<\/li>\n<li>Un moral au plus bas, avec de la d\u00e9prime<\/li>\n<li>Fatigue extr\u00eame avec la baisse de libido, d\u2019envie de l\u2019autre<\/li>\n<li>Un retrait social<\/li>\n<li>Manque de plaisir<\/li>\n<li>Troubles somatiques<\/li>\n<li>De l<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/sante\/garder-la-forme\/les-sports-a-pratiquer-en-cas-dhypertension-arterielle\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u2019hypertension<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><strong>Des solutions existent<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Si la solution miracle et imm\u00e9diate n\u2019existe pas, r\u00e9soudre un burn-out amoureux passe par plusieurs phases \u00e0 respecter. Dont la principale, se rendre compte de l\u2019existence d\u2019un souci majeur. Et accepter d\u2019en parler. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/couple\/communication-secret-dun-couple-heureux\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Communiquer<\/a>, encore et encore, pour mettre \u00e0 plat les obstacles que vous percevez dans votre couple. Une communication avec votre conjoint d\u00e9cidera de ce que vous voulez, pas ou plus, pour corriger certaines attitudes. Du repos sera n\u00e9cessaire, avec un \u00e9loignement temporaire pour se ressourcer. Et si cela ne suffit pas, une s\u00e9ance de th\u00e9rapie de couple peut \u00eatre la solution la plus efficace. Effectu\u00e9e en terrain neutre avec un professionnel. Dans la capitale, il existe des centres de planning familial qui ne demandent qu\u2019\u00e0 vous aider. Pour trouver celui pr\u00e9sent dans votre commune, rendez-vous sur le site <a href=\"https:\/\/social.brussels\/\">https:\/\/social.brussels\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>Souvent associ\u00e9 au travail, le ph\u00e9nom\u00e8ne du burn-out peut frapper [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":47726,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"no","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1104],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47723","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sexo"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Le burn-out amoureux, c&#039;est quoi ? - Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Avant de mal comprendre certains signaux et briser votre couple, d\u00e9couvrez ce qu\u2019un burn-out amoureux peut provoquer et comment am\u00e9liorer les choses.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Le burn-out amoureux, c&#039;est quoi ? - Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Avant de mal comprendre certains signaux et briser votre couple, d\u00e9couvrez ce qu\u2019un burn-out amoureux peut provoquer et comment am\u00e9liorer les choses.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2021-01-08T09:41:42+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/burn_out_amoureux.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1110\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"500\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Lauren Soukiassian\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"\u00c9crit par\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Lauren Soukiassian\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Dur\u00e9e de lecture estim\u00e9e\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi\",\"name\":\"Le burn-out amoureux, c'est quoi ? - Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/burn_out_amoureux.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2021-01-08T09:41:42+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/#\/schema\/person\/ebc87c29599dd51d1bb53bc5a497e45d\"},\"description\":\"Avant de mal comprendre certains signaux et briser votre couple, d\u00e9couvrez ce qu\u2019un burn-out amoureux peut provoquer et comment am\u00e9liorer les choses.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/burn_out_amoureux.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/burn_out_amoureux.jpg\",\"width\":1110,\"height\":500,\"caption\":\"burn out amoureux\"},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Bien-\u00catre\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Sexo\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":3,\"name\":\"Le burn-out amoureux, c&rsquo;est quoi ?\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/\",\"name\":\"Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE\",\"description\":\"Et si la vie commen\u00e7ait \u00e0 50 ans ?\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/#\/schema\/person\/ebc87c29599dd51d1bb53bc5a497e45d\",\"name\":\"Lauren Soukiassian\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/author\/lauren\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Le burn-out amoureux, c'est quoi ? - Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE","description":"Avant de mal comprendre certains signaux et briser votre couple, d\u00e9couvrez ce qu\u2019un burn-out amoureux peut provoquer et comment am\u00e9liorer les choses.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi","og_locale":"fr_FR","og_type":"article","og_title":"Le burn-out amoureux, c'est quoi ? - Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE","og_description":"Avant de mal comprendre certains signaux et briser votre couple, d\u00e9couvrez ce qu\u2019un burn-out amoureux peut provoquer et comment am\u00e9liorer les choses.","og_url":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi","og_site_name":"Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE","article_published_time":"2021-01-08T09:41:42+00:00","og_image":[{"width":1110,"height":500,"url":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/burn_out_amoureux.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"Lauren Soukiassian","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"\u00c9crit par":"Lauren Soukiassian","Dur\u00e9e de lecture estim\u00e9e":"2 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi","url":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi","name":"Le burn-out amoureux, c'est quoi ? - Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/burn_out_amoureux.jpg","datePublished":"2021-01-08T09:41:42+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/#\/schema\/person\/ebc87c29599dd51d1bb53bc5a497e45d"},"description":"Avant de mal comprendre certains signaux et briser votre couple, d\u00e9couvrez ce qu\u2019un burn-out amoureux peut provoquer et comment am\u00e9liorer les choses.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"fr-FR","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"fr-FR","@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/burn_out_amoureux.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/burn_out_amoureux.jpg","width":1110,"height":500,"caption":"burn out amoureux"},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo\/le-burn-out-amoureux-cest-quoi#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Bien-\u00catre","item":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Sexo","item":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/sexo"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":3,"name":"Le burn-out amoureux, c&rsquo;est quoi ?"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/","name":"Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE","description":"Et si la vie commen\u00e7ait \u00e0 50 ans ?","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"fr-FR"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/#\/schema\/person\/ebc87c29599dd51d1bb53bc5a497e45d","name":"Lauren Soukiassian","url":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/author\/lauren"}]}},"modified_by":"Magali Duqu\u00e9","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47723","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/18"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47723"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47723\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47727,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47723\/revisions\/47727"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47726"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47723"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47723"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47723"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}