{"id":50129,"date":"2021-10-02T07:49:09","date_gmt":"2021-10-02T05:49:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/?p=50129"},"modified":"2021-09-29T14:49:37","modified_gmt":"2021-09-29T12:49:37","slug":"le-phubbing-ou-limpolitesse-2-0","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/le-phubbing-ou-limpolitesse-2-0","title":{"rendered":"Le phubbing ou l\u2019impolitesse 2.0."},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><p>Il fut un temps o\u00f9 les couples sortaient, accompagn\u00e9s d\u2019un chaperon. Aujourd\u2019hui, \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e8re de notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9 hyper connect\u00e9e, il a pris la forme du smartphone, omnipr\u00e9sent. Y compris l\u00e0 o\u00f9 on ne l\u2019attend pas. Comme sur la table du <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/cuisine\/bonnes-adresses\/5-meilleurs-restaurants-asiatiques-de-bruxelles\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">restaurant<\/a> ou de cette charmante terrasse o\u00f9 vous passez un agr\u00e9able moment en charmante compagnie. Avant cette maudite sonnerie idiote. Et le r\u00e9flexe de votre partenaire de table de r\u00e9pondre devant vous. Le comble de la muflerie\u00a0? Certes, et au nom abscons\u00a0: phubbing. De quoi s\u2019agit-il\u00a0?<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Qu\u2019est-ce que le phubbing\u00a0?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Sous ce nom abscons se cache l\u2019une des cons\u00e9quences d\u2019une soci\u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9sormais moins reli\u00e9e au contact social. Et plus articul\u00e9e autour des objets connect\u00e9s, devenus nos fid\u00e8les et encombrants compagnons de vie. Le phubbing n\u2019est autre que la contraction entre deux mots anglais\u00a0: phone (t\u00e9l\u00e9phoner) et snubbing (snober). Le phubber est donc une personne qui consulte son t\u00e9l\u00e9phone tout en snobant celle pr\u00e9sente devant lui. Certains jugeront que ce souci n\u2019a rien de comparable avec les probl\u00e8mes majeurs rencontr\u00e9s dans notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9. Certes, mais il s\u2019ajoute \u00e0 la longue liste de ces d\u00e9sagr\u00e9ments qui finissent par nous irriter par leur r\u00e9p\u00e9tition.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Que montre la pratique du phubbing\u00a0?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Pratiqu\u00e9 tant par les femmes que les hommes, le phubbing symbolise \u00e0 lui seul une caract\u00e9ristique de notre \u00e9poque\u00a0: ce besoin de rester connect\u00e9 en permanence. Pour ne rien rater de ce qui se d\u00e9roule dans le monde devenu de plus en plus virtuel. Avec des cons\u00e9quences d\u00e9l\u00e9t\u00e8res qui peuvent s\u2019ensuivre. Avec le phubbing, vous montrez \u00e0 votre vis-\u00e0-vis non seulement votre impolitesse, mais aussi qu\u2019il compte moins que le contenu consult\u00e9 sur l\u2019\u00e9cran du smartphone.<br \/>\nAvec le risque assur\u00e9 de voir sombrer \u00e0 terme une relation, une amiti\u00e9. Pour celui qui consulte en permanence son smartphone, la pratique marque aussi un manque de satisfaction dans sa relation avec autrui. Un aspect sociologique amplement d\u00e9velopp\u00e9 dans l\u2019\u00e9tude publi\u00e9e par le tr\u00e8s s\u00e9rieux <em>Journal of Applied Social Psychology<\/em>. Soit, mais qui peut r\u00e9ellement se targuer de n\u2019avoir jamais jet\u00e9 un coup d\u2019\u0153il sur le t\u00e9l\u00e9phone pos\u00e9 \u00e0 table\u00a0? Mea culpa.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Comment r\u00e9agir sainement\u00a0?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Vous \u00eates attabl\u00e9e avec un partenaire au regard plus souvent plong\u00e9 sur l\u2019\u00e9cran de son t\u00e9l\u00e9phone que sur vous. Quelle doit \u00eatre votre attitude\u00a0? Tout d\u00e9pend de la personne en face de vous. Face \u00e0 votre N+1 ou un client important, la marge de man\u0153uvre reste limit\u00e9e. S\u2019il s\u2019agit d\u2019un ami ou d\u2019un proche, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/psycho\/quand-on-na-que-lhumour-a-soffrir-en-partage\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">l\u2019humour<\/a> reste une meilleure approche que les reproches et l\u2019envie de fracasser le t\u00e9l\u00e9phone contre le mur. L\u2019id\u00e9al est d\u2019amorcer le rendez-vous par l\u2019engagement mutuel de mettre les t\u00e9l\u00e9phones en mode silencieux. Pour garantir le plaisir d\u2019une bonne conversation les yeux dans les yeux. Et plus si affinit\u00e9s.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>Il fut un temps o\u00f9 les couples sortaient, accompagn\u00e9s d\u2019un [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":50131,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"no","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50129","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bien-etre"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Le phubbing ou l\u2019impolitesse 2.0. - Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Si les smartphones et autres objets connect\u00e9s nous rendent certains services, force est de constater leur interaction pas forc\u00e9ment positive avec nos relations sociales. 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