{"id":53286,"date":"2022-04-17T06:32:31","date_gmt":"2022-04-17T04:32:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/?p=53286"},"modified":"2023-09-30T20:46:36","modified_gmt":"2023-09-30T18:46:36","slug":"lorbiting-ou-lart-de-vous-epier-en-mode-2-0","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/culture\/decouvrir-culture\/lorbiting-ou-lart-de-vous-epier-en-mode-2-0","title":{"rendered":"L\u2019orbiting, ou l\u2019art de vous \u00e9pier en mode 2.0"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><p>Dans la vie amoureuse, les <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/un-nouveau-facteur-de-stress-pour-les-55-ans-et-plus\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">r\u00e9seaux sociaux<\/a> peuvent \u00eatre un alli\u00e9 pr\u00e9cieux pour le dating. Mais aussi un support id\u00e9al pour qui cherche \u00e0 vous nuire. En t\u00e9moigne cette pratique qui prend de l\u2019ampleur et qui vise davantage les femmes\u00a0:<strong> l\u2019orbiting<\/strong>. Mais de quoi s\u2019agit-il\u00a0?<\/p>\n<h2><strong>L\u2019orbiting, une garde \u00e0 vue num\u00e9rique<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Sous cet anglicisme, un de plus, se cache un comportement relationnel bas\u00e9 sur la pr\u00e9sence sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux. Votre ex continue de suivre vos profils cr\u00e9\u00e9s (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter etc), de liker certaines de vos publications mais sans prendre contact avec vous. D\u2019o\u00f9 l\u2019expression orbiting. Qui rappelle la course d\u2019un satellite effectu\u00e9e autour d\u2019une plan\u00e8te mais sans tenter le contact. Pour l\u2019initiateur de l\u2019orbiting, il s\u2019agit surtout de continuer \u00e0 garder un \u0153il sur votre vie, de vous garder sous le coude en quelque sorte. Quitte \u00e0 tenter de renouer un contact avec vous si l\u2019occasion et l\u2019envie se pr\u00e9sentent. Un peu dans le style du cookie jarring, d\u00e9taill\u00e9 dans une chronique pr\u00e9c\u00e9dente. Une pratique douteuse qui suit g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement un autre comportement tout aussi l\u00e2che\u00a0: le ghosting. Qui consiste \u00e0 larguer quelqu\u2019un en faisant le mort. Une pratique elle aussi en augmentation.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Des effets n\u00e9fastes<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Pour la femme qui vient de subir une s\u00e9paration, parfois brutale, la situation se montre d\u00e9j\u00e0 p\u00e9nible \u00e0 vivre. L\u2019orbiting, quand il est d\u00e9couvert, aggrave encore la situation. Avec de l\u2019angoisse, de l\u2019\u00e9nervement \u00e0 voir un ex continuer \u00e0 r\u00f4der, m\u00eame virtuellement. \u00ab\u00a0<em>Un comportement qui emp\u00eache bien souvent d\u2019effectuer le deuil d\u2019une relation et de tourner la page. Le d\u00e9fi pour la victime de ce comportement consiste \u00e0 \u00e9viter de surr\u00e9agir, ce qui apporterait de la frustration de votre c\u00f4t\u00e9, et une certaine jouissance aupr\u00e8s de votre ex<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb explique Claudia Scholl, sexologue. \u00ab\u00a0<em>Dans certains cas, l\u2019orbiting peut aussi faire office de bouteille lanc\u00e9e \u00e0 la mer par votre ex. Il ne sait comment revenir en arri\u00e8re et en signalant sa pr\u00e9sence dans votre environnement num\u00e9rique, il cherche \u00e0 renouer avec vous. Maladroitement, certes. La r\u00e9ponse \u00e0 lui apporter d\u00e9pendra de vous<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb ajoute Claudia Scholl.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Comment r\u00e9agir\u00a0?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Si vous avez l\u2019impression (souvent confirm\u00e9e) d\u2019\u00eatre victime d\u2019orbiting, le premier r\u00e9flexe consiste \u00e0 \u00e9viter d\u2019entrer dans le jeu de votre ex-partenaire. Qui cherche probablement \u00e0 vous \u00e9nerver, \u00e0 vous faire r\u00e9agir. Ne pas r\u00e9agir lui montrera l\u2019inutilit\u00e9 de poursuivre son comportement. Si l\u2019orbiting devient de plus en plus \u00e9touffant, il reste la solution ultime pour vous d\u00e9barrasser de lui (d\u2019elle)\u00a0: le blocage de son profil en ligne. M\u00eame s\u2019il reste le risque du faux profil cr\u00e9\u00e9 pour poursuivre votre surveillance. Si votre ex-partenaire est n\u00e9ophyte sur les r\u00e9seaux, il se peut que l\u2019orbiting soit r\u00e9alis\u00e9 de fa\u00e7on inconsciente. Il vous suit, certes, mais sans autre intention que la curiosit\u00e9. Un message envoy\u00e9 devrait suffire \u00e0 lui signifier que vous savez qu\u2019il vous suit.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Photo Shutterstock.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>Dans la vie amoureuse, les r\u00e9seaux sociaux peuvent \u00eatre un [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":53289,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"no","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1130],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-53286","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-decouvrir-culture"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>L\u2019orbiting, ou l\u2019art de vous \u00e9pier en mode 2.0 - Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Une nouvelle tendance prend de l\u2019ampleur sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux\u00a0: l\u2019orbiting. 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