{"id":56733,"date":"2022-11-18T06:24:48","date_gmt":"2022-11-18T05:24:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/?p=56733"},"modified":"2022-11-16T14:28:05","modified_gmt":"2022-11-16T13:28:05","slug":"le-winter-coating-quand-lamour-nest-pas-desinteresse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/couple\/le-winter-coating-quand-lamour-nest-pas-desinteresse","title":{"rendered":"Le winter coating, quand l\u2019amour n\u2019est pas d\u00e9sint\u00e9ress\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><p>L\u2019inflation n\u2019impacte pas seulement nos finances personnelles. Avec un budget personnel en tension, certains c\u00e9libataires (femmes comme hommes) ont trouv\u00e9 la parade. Essayer de renouer avec des ex pour imiter le comportement du coucou\u00a0: vivre sur le dos d\u2019un autre oiseau. La comparaison id\u00e9ale pour pr\u00e9senter la nouvelle tendance amoureuse toxique\u00a0: le <strong>winter coating.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Qu\u2019est-ce que le winter coating\u00a0?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Les applications de rencontres r\u00e9v\u00e8lent souvent de nouveaux comportements. Comme l\u2019appli Inner Circle qui cible une pratique en augmentation depuis le d\u00e9but de la crise \u00e9conomique. Le winter coating, que l\u2019on pourrait traduire librement comme un v\u00eatement d\u2019hiver. L\u2019id\u00e9e de base du winter coating consiste \u00e0 vouloir reprendre contact avec un ou<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/psycho\/cinq-conseils-pour-oublier-son-ex\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> une ex<\/a> au d\u00e9but de l\u2019hiver pour ne pas passer la mauvaise saison seul(e ) et r\u00e9duire les d\u00e9penses, voir vivre sur les finances de l\u2019autre. Une tentative, int\u00e9ress\u00e9e, de renouer avec un ancien amour pour reprendre une histoire l\u00e0 o\u00f9 elle s\u2019\u00e9tait arr\u00eat\u00e9e. Le temps de quelques mois.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Quels sont les risques du winter coating\u00a0?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u00ab <em>Cette pratique se doit d\u2019\u00eatre expliqu\u00e9e. Notamment quant \u00e0 ses effets n\u00e9gatifs. Premi\u00e8re chose pour la personne approch\u00e9e, se demander pourquoi l\u2019ex revient vers elle. Car le winter coating implique un risque non n\u00e9gligeable\u00a0: voir le winter coater faire les yeux doux \u00e0 un(e) partenaire durant cette p\u00e9riode hivernale et profiter de ses faiblesses ou d\u2019un amour encore vivace dans son esprit. Pour l\u2019adepte du winter coating, le b\u00e9n\u00e9fice est double\u00a0: vivre sur la b\u00eate, pour utiliser cette expression populaire, et ne pas rester seul durant les mois d\u2019hiver. Avant de reprendre sa libert\u00e9 une fois la belle saison revenue. Je vous laisse imaginer les effets sur la personne flou\u00e9e. Quitt\u00e9e une nouvelle fois. Consid\u00e9r\u00e9e par le winter coater comme un simple manteau d\u2019hiver<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb explique Marie-Claire Thomas, sexologue, sp\u00e9cialiste des relations de couple.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Comment \u00e9viter de tomber dans le pi\u00e8ge du winter coating\u00a0?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Avant tout, il n\u2019est pas inutile de rappeler ce pourcentage\u00a0: 71%. Soit le taux d\u2019\u00e9chec constat\u00e9 par l\u2019application aupr\u00e8s de personnes sond\u00e9es. Et qui ont tent\u00e9 le winter coating en accordant leur confiance \u00e0 un ex. Mais \u00e0 quoi faire attention avant de renouer avec une ancienne relation amoureuse qui vous fait les yeux doux\u00a0?<br \/>\n\u00ab\u00a0<em>Il n\u2019y a pas de conseils efficaces \u00e0 100% pour se pr\u00e9server de l\u2019\u00e9chec, toujours possible en amour<\/em>, explique Marie-Claire Thomas. <em>Mais quelques petits gestes peuvent aider \u00e0 rester vigilant. Comme une discussion franche entre quatre yeux. L\u2019occasion de tenter de deviner les intentions de celui ou celle qui tente de raviver une ancienne relation. Mon conseil le plus important \u00e0 mes yeux consiste \u00e0 freiner les choses, \u00e0 prendre son temps. C\u2019est-\u00e0-dire \u00e0 recommencer la relation par le d\u00e9but, avec le jeu de la s\u00e9duction. Normalement vous verrez rapidement si votre ex accepte de prendre du temps pour se retrouver, ou s\u2019il se montre tr\u00e8s press\u00e9 de renouer la liaison. Dans ce dernier cas, stoppez tout. Vous faites face \u00e0 un winter coater.<\/em>\u00a0<em>Fuyez, sauf, bien s\u00fbr, \u00e0 accepter vous aussi ce type de relation saisonni\u00e8re<\/em>.\u00bb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>L\u2019inflation n\u2019impacte pas seulement nos finances personnelles. 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