{"id":64739,"date":"2026-02-16T11:32:16","date_gmt":"2026-02-16T10:32:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/?p=64739"},"modified":"2026-02-16T15:32:15","modified_gmt":"2026-02-16T14:32:15","slug":"le-reply-guy-la-plaie-des-reseaux-sociaux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/fr\/bien-etre\/psycho\/le-reply-guy-la-plaie-des-reseaux-sociaux","title":{"rendered":"Le reply guy, la plaie des r\u00e9seaux sociaux ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><p>Oui, le harc\u00e8lement des femmes sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux est une triste r\u00e9alit\u00e9. Il peut prendre plusieurs formes pour des pr\u00e9dateurs au seul objectif de nuire. Et parmi ces profils figure le reply guy (ou la reply girl, dans certains cas). Un personnage narcissique \u00e0 la nuisance subtile. Des commentaires intempestifs \u00e0 chaque publication, des critiques, des likes sans suite&#8230; Nul doute qu\u2019il (elle) figure parmi la liste de commentaires pr\u00e9sente sous vos posts. Bonne nouvelle, des cl\u00e9s existent pour le prendre \u00e0 son propre jeu et s\u2019en d\u00e9barrasser.<\/p>\n<h3>Qu\u2019est-ce que le reply guy\u00a0?<\/h3>\n<p>Bas\u00e9e sur le verbe to reply (r\u00e9pondre) l\u2019expression reply guy (ou girl, plus rarement) d\u00e9signe cet internaute exasp\u00e9rant qui a r\u00e9ponse \u00e0 tout et se permet de r\u00e9agir rapidement \u00e0 vos publications en ligne. Son petit jeu\u00a0? Contredire sans argument avanc\u00e9, apporter son avis (non r\u00e9clam\u00e9), critiquer, se moquer de ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 publi\u00e9. Voire flatter et semer le trouble. Sa cible pr\u00e9f\u00e9r\u00e9e\u00a0? Les femmes. Des proies faciles pour lui. S\u2019il s\u2019agit la plupart du temps d\u2019inconnus en mal de reconnaissance ou de s\u00e9duction, il peut arriver que le reply guy cach\u00e9 derri\u00e8re un pseudo soit un coll\u00e8gue, une \u00ab\u00a0amie\u00a0\u00bb voire un parent qui a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de vous nuire pour une raison ou une autre. Les commentaires ne sont pas forc\u00e9ment agressifs, le harc\u00e8lement peut simplement se concr\u00e9tiser par des commentaires stupides, et r\u00e9p\u00e9titifs, post\u00e9s sous chacun de vos posts.<\/p>\n<h3>Un comportement aux multiples objectifs<\/h3>\n<p>Si le reply guy agit g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement pour attirer l\u2019attention sur lui et jouer la carte de l\u2019ego surdimensionn\u00e9, celui qui sait tout sur tout, il peut avoir un autre objectif. Qui expliquerait, en partie, le choix d\u2019internautes f\u00e9minines. \u00ab\u00a0Tenter le contact pour combler un vide sentimental, une solitude. Voire se rassurer quant \u00e0 son pouvoir de s\u00e9duction. Dans ce contexte, les commentaires se feront plus flatteurs, avec des compliments, souvent lourds, adress\u00e9s sous des photos publi\u00e9es en ligne. Des avances, parfois\u00a0\u00bb explique Sophie Renoir, coach de vie.<\/p>\n<h3>Comment r\u00e9agir face au reply guy\u00a0?<\/h3>\n<p>Plusieurs r\u00e9actions cohabitent pour g\u00e9rer ce type de profil, loin d\u2019\u00eatre marginal. Il est possible de jouer sur la communication et tenter le dialogue pour d\u00e9couvrir les motivations du reply guy. Mais c\u2019est accepter d\u2019entrer dans son jeu, lui qui attend souvent que vous r\u00e9agissiez. Par pur plaisir personnel, pour flatter son ego. \u00ab\u00a0Une r\u00e9action \u00e0 \u00e9viter, qui ne m\u00e8nera \u00e0 rien. Sauf \u00e0 perdre du temps en ligne avec quelqu\u2019un qui ne d\u00e9voilera rien de lui. Les r\u00e9seaux sont d\u00e9j\u00e0 suffisamment chronophages pour ne pas perdre de temps avec quelqu\u2019un qui ne cherche qu\u2019\u00e0 cr\u00e9er l\u2019illusion d\u2019un \u00e9change possible\u00a0\u00bb explique la coach.<br \/>\nDans le cas d\u2019avances, il peut suffire d\u2019y r\u00e9pondre positivement pour d\u00e9clencher la fuite du reply guy. Ses mots seront rarement suivis d\u2019action. Son jeu d\u00e9masqu\u00e9, il cherchera une autre cible.<br \/>\n\u00ab\u00a0Vous pouvez aussi ne pas r\u00e9agir et consid\u00e9rer comme quantit\u00e9 n\u00e9gligeable ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 post\u00e9. In fine, faute de patience ou d\u2019envie de jouer la carte du dialogue avec cette personne toxique il reste la solution d\u00e9finitive\u00a0: proc\u00e9der au blocage du profil. Simple et efficace\u00a0\u00bb conclut Sophie Renoir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>Oui, le harc\u00e8lement des femmes sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux est [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":64741,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"no","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3,1103],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64739","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bien-etre","category-psycho"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Le reply guy, la plaie des r\u00e9seaux sociaux ? - Fifty &amp; Me MAGAZINE<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Une photo sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux. 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