{"id":13194,"date":"2019-12-14T07:00:33","date_gmt":"2019-12-14T06:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.life-magazine.be\/nl\/?p=13194"},"modified":"2019-12-10T11:08:07","modified_gmt":"2019-12-10T10:08:07","slug":"slow-love-de-juiste-partnerkeuze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiftyandmemagazine.be\/nl\/welzijn\/relaties\/slow-love-de-juiste-partnerkeuze","title":{"rendered":"Slow love: tast jij ook voorzichtig af of je de juiste partnerkeuze maakt ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Leestijd:<\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> &lt; 1<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minuut<\/span><\/span><p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Zo is <em>casual sex<\/em> nooit <em>casual<\/em>: hersenonderzoek geeft aan hoe intens die ervaringen voor ons zijn en 33 tot 45 % van de onenightstands groeit bovendien uit tot vaste relaties. <strong>Scanneronderzoek gaf aan dat naar iemand verlangen neurologisch een even sterke impuls is als de nood om te eten of te drinken &#8211; een primaire behoefte dus.<\/strong> Een partner willen vinden is dus niet aangedreven door een romantisch ideaal, maar blijkt een biologische noodzaak.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Helen Fisher: Helen Fisher nous explique pourquoi nous aimons et pourquoi parfois, nous trompons.\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.ted.com\/talks\/lang\/fr\/helen_fisher_why_we_love_why_we_cheat\" width=\"500\" height=\"376\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Wel wachten we tegenwoordig langer om ons te binden dan vroeger, maar dat heeft volgens Helen Fisher, biologisch antropologe aan het Kinsey Institute (Rutgers University, New Jersey), minder te maken met een verlangen naar luchtige liefde dan met een diepe angst voor afwijzing en breuk. <strong>Hoe vrijer we zijn in onze keuzes, hoe meer schrik we hebben om de foute keuze te maken.<\/strong> Afgewezen worden blijkt voor je hersenen en lichaam namelijk even ingrijpend als afkicken van coca\u00efne. Voor Fisher is de tendens naar <em>friends with benefits<\/em> en <em>casual sex<\/em> dus geen teken van losbandigheid, maar is het een stap in wat zij noemt: <em>slow love<\/em>. We willen meer dan ooit voorzichtig aftasten of we de juiste keuze maken.\u00a0<em>Bron: www.demorgen.be<\/em><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Artikel verschenen in Psychologies Magazine<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Leestijd:<\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> &lt; 1<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minuut<\/span><\/span>Voor Helen Fisher is de tendens naar friends with benefits en casual sex dus geen teken van losbandigheid, maar net het een stap in wat zij noemt: slow love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":13201,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"no","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[884],"tags":[56],"class_list":["post-13194","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relaties","tag-gezondheid"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Slow love: voorzichtig de juiste partnerkeuze aftasten - Life MAGAZINE<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Slow love is de trend in onze maatschappij. 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